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A family in Nairobi has surprised the world after they organised a unique
birthday party for their daughter who recently turned 22 years old.
Videos and pictures captured during the colourful event showed that it was attended
by celebrities and influencers in the showbiz industry.
The lady who was turning 22 comes from a well-off family and is also a fast-growing
TikToker. Instead of the usual cake cutting, popping of champagne and blasting music
synonymous with many birthday parties, this one took a more solemn approach.
The music that played was cool. Most of the tunes that blared from the home theatre
were gospel songs.
Birthday party to remember
However, what stood out was an award ritual that was done by the parents. They
presented the university girl with a custom-made medal and recognised her as the first
daughter in their family who had crossed 21 years without getting pregnant while still
in school.
“We have seven children. Njoki here is our last born. We have six girls and one boy.
We like joking about this, but it is a serious matter if you look at it keenly. All five
girls gave me grandkids while still in school. Even my only son Kamau…he made a
girl pregnant.