A friend had a lady he was in serious relationship with,  the lady latter travelled abroad .
After some period  of  time this friend found a girl and fall in Love with her, the girl in question is in two hundred level in high institution in Enugu south east Nigeria, while the guy is in Lagos.
He latter further his intention by meeting the parent of the girl and ask her hands in marriage which two parent agreed and traditional marriage was carried out.
The guy ask the girl to stop school and let her start everything in Lagos as the east is far, but the girl insisted  she must finish her school in Enugu before going  to Lagos. Initially this our guy didn’t take offence but it got to a stage he got tired of the whole stuff(because he is always goes to friends house to eat).
He complains “ I am married still can’t have my wife cook for me, two, I still see my self moving with another woman and other things I shouldn’t have been doing if my wife is here, what type of life is this?”.
Ok now the weeding Card has been printed the weeding are to take place On 28th of this Month.
But the truth of the matter now is that he lose confidence in her, he agues why did he told his wife what to do she insisted on her opinion and how long would he has to wait for a Law student to complete her study.
While we are at it the Formal lady just arrived the Country and financially rich. The lady headed over to  our guy house been her man before she left, and handed over to this our guy two key cars (One Sport car and Infinite Jeep) . As I am writing now the two cars are packed at our friend’s house.
We went out together last Sunday with his private car, We found out is not being him self at a point he has to leave us. Making our outing unpleasant one because we have to board commercial bus to our various houses, Imagine the nonsense?.
Now our guy is confused which way to go, is it this very nice, gently and rich lady (this lady is more appearing to him now) or this very stubborn, retarded girl he has done her tradition weeding.
Please forum members which advice do you have for this fellow? This is serious

Justme what you said  is one side of it. The truth is the guy has loss interest in the girl because of her attitude towards him.
Also remember that this lady that returned from abroad not only rich but good lady and has been so nice to this guy.

Not just offending aspect of it.It goes beyond that which i belief he understand. The question now is if you are in his shoes what would you do?
Tell this lady which has done him no wrong to leave, ok, he is not all that comfortable to move with this very girl in school because of her attitude.
In short as I write now his Father constantly call him to know how far he has gone about up coming weeding preparation

Uju first welcome to  forum. This is not really time to blame or point at what went wrong instead solution is needed.
To the best of my knowledge there is no courtship at all with the girl in school rather he has more long relationship with the lady that just arrive from abroad.

That is why help is needed in the first place.

That is exactly the reason the problem has to be posted on forum for people's opinion because two heads in better than one they said.

He has done so time without number but the girl insisted on finishing her study as earlier stated.

Uju i think I am some how agree with your last post.