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« on: November 12, 2011, 10:38:08 AM »
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Has anyone had it right in the face when talking to you? So close, in fact, that the letter "S" results in an unwanted shower? Often when we are out of network, we are in a noisy environment as people try to talk louder to be heard people trying to talk louder to be heard. This results in a roar that regular conversation difficult.

The temptation in this environment is to be very close to another person so they can listen and they do. This result may be too close to another person, sometimes making them very uncomfortable. This discomfort is heightened when they have consumed alcohol and the person we are talking about do not have.

Each of us has our own comfort zone limit. This is a space that surrounds us when another person enters begin to feel uncomfortable. A good way to interact with this is to remember if you have had a discussion in which someone has the right in the face and even pointed the finger very close to it. Remember who made you feel? In most cases, makes a person feel more angry.

In a network environment is important to keep a distance from a person who is speaking. This distance must be almost an extension of the arms. Most of the people is the comfort limit the length of your arm. If you are very close to someone in a conversation, imagine if you raised your arm, which is the distance that must be the other person. If they move closer to you in the course of the conversation, which is acceptable for them to be closer. If acceptable to then continue the conversation at that distance.

Sometimes you can tell if you are too close to a person if it appears to move backwards while you are talking to them. If you seem to be getting further away from you, do not move to be near them. They will stop when they reach the distance that is comfortable. If you turn and walk away, of course, it's time to find someone else to talk.

To be more effective in their attempts to build relationships with others is very important to keep these things in mind. Remember there is no difference between what you say to a person if they are not involved in the conversation. Compliance with the limits of good can give you the edge you need to do networking.
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« Reply #1 on: November 13, 2011, 12:07:32 PM »
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U make sense joo
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« Reply #2 on: November 13, 2011, 12:08:16 PM »
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interesting...
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« Reply #3 on: November 13, 2011, 01:05:10 PM »
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U make sense joo
Glad to know that my post made sense and helpful. That is why we are all here to educate and learn from one another.
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« Reply #4 on: November 13, 2011, 02:00:03 PM »
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Very helpful, thanks for your time in putting this together.
I always enjoy your post.
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This is interesting!
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We are here to learn and impact.
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« Reply #7 on: November 14, 2011, 09:11:14 PM »
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We are here to learn and impact.
I'm actually learning a lot
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